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BETTER Brotherhood

You said you’d do it. Then you didn’t.

What it is
A private paid group of men who want more out of life. Online every day. Chapters in person.
What you get
The man you said you’d be. Daily check-ins. Weekly reflections. Monthly goals. Men who read every one and won’t let you slide. No course. No coach.
How it works
Post your plan. Report every week. Men read it. Men answer.
What to expect
Men on here 24/7, leveling each other up. Real name. Real face. Post weekly or you’re out.
The problem

Sound familiar?

  • I start strong. Then I slide.
  • I move my own goal. Nobody knows.
  • I know what to do. I just don’t do it.
  • I’m solid at work. I’m slipping at home.
  • The guys around me are fine with fine.

You don’t need more tips. You need men who see the work. And say something when it stops.

How it works

Here’s the fix.

It’s simple. That’s why it works.

01

Say it.

Post an intro. Say why you’re here. Then set your goals. Daily. Weekly. Monthly.

02

Do it.

Check in every day. Work the plan. Ask for help where you’re weak. Give help where you’re strong.

03

Report it.

Reflect every week and every month. On track? Balanced? Men read it. Men answer. Go quiet and you’re out.

What you get

All of this. Every month.

Give what you’re good at. Take what you need.

  • Daily goals and check-ins
  • Weekly goals and reflections
  • Monthly goals and reflections
  • Habits that stick
  • Systems that work
  • Fitness coaching
  • Money and budget help
  • Faith studies
  • Real friends
  • Chat 24/7
  • Zoom calls
  • Meetups and challenges
All five

Not just the gym. All of it.

You become the five guys you spend the most time with. Make sure those five are studs, not bums. Not jacked but broke. Not rich but never home. Men who work on all five and stay balanced.

  1. 01

    Fitness

    Train on a plan. Log it. Own the misses.

  2. 02

    Finances

    Pick one number. Post which way it moved.

  3. 03

    Family

    Name one promise at home. Keep it. Report it.

  4. 04

    Friends

    Answer other men’s posts. Show up for them.

  5. 05

    Faith

    Live by a code. Yours or ours. But have one.

House rules

  • Real name. Real face.
  • Post every week. Same day.
  • Cameras on for calls.
  • Give value. Take value.
  • Respect the men in the room. Own your words.
  • Go quiet and you get one warning. Then you’re out.
Where it happens

Online every day. In person when it counts.

A chat room is not a brotherhood. So we don’t stop at the chat room.

Private Slack

One channel per pillar. Firing all day, every day. Daily check-ins. Weekly reflections. Nothing off limits.

Fireside chats

Live on Zoom. Cameras on. Real talk with the men in the room.

Events

Rucks, races, and meetups through the year.

Who this is for

Is this you?

Read both lists. Be honest.

This is you

  • You’re already doing the work in one part of your life.
  • You keep starting over in another part.
  • You’ll post real numbers. Even on bad weeks.
  • You can hear it when a man you respect says you’re wrong.
  • You’ll answer other men. Not just post your own stuff.

This is not you

  • You want to watch, not post.
  • You want a pep talk, not a push.
  • You want a course with lessons. This is peers, not a program.
  • You need a doctor, a counselor, or a pastor first. Get that. Then come back.
  • You haven’t started anything yet. Start first. Then apply.
Proof

From the room.

Real members. Real posts. No founders quoted here.

We had dinner with friends tonight. I knew I was going to post this, so I skipped the beers and was super light on dessert.

On knowing the weekly report is coming.

Ryan R. · Member
The weekly review thread
The weekly review threadScored. Same format. Every week.
The finance channel
The finance channelMembers bring their own numbers.
The friends channel
The friends channel
Pricing

Two ways in.

The price is right here on the page. No games.

Core Brotherhood

$19.99/mo

The room. The weekly report. The calls. The events. This is the product.

Who it’s for

Men who want peers who will check the work every week.

  • Private Slack, a channel for each pillar
  • Weekly scored report
  • Fireside chats on Zoom
  • Challenges with results posted
  • Local chapters and in-person events

Founder-Level

Direct access
$99.99/mo

Everything in Core. Plus Barret, Don and Jan on one goal with you. Daily.

Who it’s for

Men with one thing they keep failing to move. A weight. A number. A habit.

  • Everything in Core
  • A direct line to all three founders
  • Daily check-ins on one named goal
  • A written plan you’re held to
  • Drop back to Core when it’s done

The price goes up as the room fills.

Each group is capped. When it fills, the next one costs more. The rate you join at is the rate you keep.

Questions

Straight answers.

Apply

Last check.

Not everyone gets in. No bums. No trolls. Say yes to these first.

  1. 01I’ll post every week under my real name.
  2. 02I’ll answer other men.
  3. 03I’ll keep my camera on for calls.
  4. 04If I go quiet, I’m out.
  5. 05Core is $19.99/mo. Founder-Level is $99.99/mo. I keep the rate I join at.

Barret, Don and Jan read every one. Fit? We set up a short call, then a pay link and a Slack invite. Not a fit? You’ll hear that too.